5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Communication with Each Other

Communication is key to any successful relationship, and that's especially true for marriage. When you can communicate effectively with your spouse, you're better able to resolve conflict, build trust, and grow closer together. If you implement these strategies each and every day, you will find yourselves happier, closer, and all the more in love.

1. Set time aside for each other.

Make time for regular communication, even when you're busy. Schedule regular date nights, or set aside some time each day to talk about your day and connect with each other. This will help you stay connected and build intimacy.

2. Seek understanding.

When your spouse is talking, really listen to what they say. Don't interrupt, and don't just wait for your turn to talk. Really listen to their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Try to see things from their perspective.

3. Prioritize your disagreements.

Not all disagreements are created equal. Some are simply small misunderstandings that can be easily resolved. Others are more serious and may require more time and effort to resolve. Prioritize your disagreements and focus on resolving the most important ones first.

4. Keep an "us vs the issue" mindset.

When you're in a disagreement, it's easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment and start to see your spouse as the enemy. But it's important to remember that you're on the same team. Instead of seeing your spouse as the problem, see the disagreement as the problem. Work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

5. Be quick to apologize--and to forgive

Everyone makes mistakes. If your spouse apologizes for something they did, be willing to forgive them and move on. Holding on to grudges will only damage your relationship and create tension. And don't assume the worst! Your significant other more than likely didn't mean to hurt you and has no idea that it affected you in that way. A simple "I felt ___ when you did this" is all it takes for your spouse to realize his or her mistake. Interestingly enough, this kind of communication also creates a stronger bond between you than if you were to let it lie.

Remember: The two of you are very different individuals with different backgrounds, experiences, and ideas, but that doesn't have to take away from your love. It should make it all the richer! Celebrate your differences, take the time to understand each other, and never stop looking for opportunities to show your appreciation for your spouse. Many people lose the fire they had when they were dating once they're married because they forget to KEEP DATING. Remember these five points, and you will be able to avoid the pit of complacency that so many other couples fall victim to. For a comprehensive list of fun ideas to add fuel back to the fire, check out these great suggestions from Marie Claire!